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How did you get so good at dreaming?

The other night my partner and I were talking. He said how did you get so good at dreaming? And I realized… That when I was a kid, I was scapegoated and trapped. But I could dream. So I dreamed as hard as I could.  How do you know if

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Dia de los muertos felt coaster with firey eyes

It’s actually quite simple.

Are you saddened, sickened, and enraged by the ongoing genocide? Me too. Some days I feel like I can’t even process the ongoing sense of despair and hopelessness that comes from watching a genocide in real time. I donate and do what I can but it doesn’t feel like enough.

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This week, I realized something huge

What if… my career choice of fundraising was in fact a trauma response? What if… what if… I was nurtured to become a fundraiser?  I am the eldest daughter, when I was little I was parentified, encouraged to solve everyone’s problems, have no boundaries, be a doormat, take care of

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How to be more pirate

How to be more pirate- means following the way the pirates have led us to a future that is in rebellion to the authoritarianism, fascism, and corporate totalitarianism that we find ourselves in. From Flynn and Olivia De Havilland in Captain Blood- which I watched a LOT with my brother

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Victor Frankl, a man in glasses stares to the right, wearing a white coat, in front of some greenery

4 Quotes on Suffering

  Since the pandemic began, we’ve had a lot of suffering. And so I want to give you some quotes on suffering to help you out.  Here’s a thought- Did you know that US Thanksgiving is basically the worst time to travel in the entire year? Why? Whole slews of

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MODERN PROBLEMS

We must be living in a time loop

I am a peasant, and so are you. There are so many parallels between 1500 and 1600 and now. We must be living in a Time Loop. Capitalism is killing the world, devaluing and demeaning women and children. We live in a world full of landlords, serfs, and a ruling

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permission to do less and rest in 2024

Your Permission to Do Less in 2024

Hey. You. Yeah. Overworked, underpaid and unappreciated person. I see you. You got through 2023 in one piece. Well done. Are you starting your to-do list for the year, and it looks like a lot of the stuff you had to do last year? You know that big to-do list

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This is my love letter to nonprofit leaders

Dear nonprofit leader, This is my love letter to you. Here’s what I love and admire about you: You are a helper! You overcome your fears and learn how to fundraise. You learn to research, to write and speak persuasively, and you get shit done! Our organizations run because you

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